The first thing to consider is what you want to happen to the house. Do either of you want to stay in it? Could either of you afford to take over the house and pay the mortgage and other bills? There are various ways to try and ensure that you stay in the house even if you can’t afford to buy your spouse out immediately. You could stay in the house for a period There are various ways to structure a settlement if funds are not immediately available. It is important to speak with a specialist family lawyer who can give you advice as to your options.
Common Questions
Can I revert back to using my maiden name?
Yes, you can either continue using your married name or else revert to your maiden name. If you have children then you should not change their surname without considering whether it is in their best interests. You should also agree any such name change with your spouse.
My partner and I never married but have lived together for a number of years, do I still have rights?
Since 2006 cohabiting partners have had the ability to make a financial claim on their partner following the breakdown in their relationship. The rules are very different to those that apply to marriage. There is also a very tight timeframe of 1 year in which to make a claim. Receiving early specialist advice is therefore essential.
Is a prenuptial agreement legally binding in Scotland?
Yes prenuptial agreements are legally binding in Scotland. Generally they are used to give protection to someone getting married with pre-existing assets.
Can I use the simplified divorce procedure?
You can use the simplified divorce procedure if you do not have children under the age of 16 and you have been separated for 1 year with consent or else 2 years.
Can I just get a divorce?
In Scotland, you must resolve the financial side of your separation before getting divorced. The reason for this is that your right to make financial claims on your spouse is lost on divorce. Once your finances are resolved then you can apply for divorce. In Scotland, you have to prove to the court that your marriage has broken down irretrievably before the court will grant your divorce.
What if my partner and I have agreed the financial aspects of our separation?
In Scotland, the financial settlement that you have reached should be recorded in a document called either a Minute of Agreement or Separation Agreement. That is a contract between you and your partner. It is sensible to have the agreement checked and the Minute of Agreement prepared by a solicitor to ensure that it is watertight.
Can I have the same solicitor as my spouse?
No. A solicitor cannot act for you both. To act for you both would be against the Law Society of Scotland professional practice rules and would also be a conflict of interest.
Do I need a solicitor?
Whilst there is no legal requirement for you to have a solicitor, it is advisable for you to seek legal advice early on in your separation. A separation can be a very uncertain time and consulting a specialist family lawyer can provide some reassurance as to your rights and obligations.
How long does the divorce process take?
Various factors can impact on this. Once we have more information in relation to your case then timescales can be discussed in more detail. It is important not to rush a settlement in relation to your children or even your finances. These are important decisions and you should give yourself time to consider all of your options and reach a settlement which is best for you.